All about Fisting: What It Is, Why You Should Try It, and How to Do It

When you’re looking into trying new things in the bedroom, there plenty of different things out there that you can think about. One thing that you might have always been interested in trying but never had the courage to is fisting. Fisting is quite extreme, and it takes a lot of trust and a lot of effort. Because of how much effort it takes, it is not something that people generally do unless they are in a committed relationship, be it romantic or sexual. If you have a trusting partner, fisting might be a good thing for you to give a shot. However, you’re going to want to know exactly how to do it and how to do it right. It can be extremely pleasurable but only if both parties are willing, prepared, and educated. No matter if you want to be the receiving party or the one giving, fisting is something you need to really research and look into so you know exactly how to do it right. Here is everything you need to know in order to become a fisting master.

What It Really Means

Have You Ever Heard Of Fisting? Let Try It
Have You Ever Heard Of Fisting? Lets Try It
If you have never heard fisting, then obviously you want to know what it means. Basically, fisting is the act of inserting your entire hand into your partner’s vagina or rectum and then balling the hand into a fist. Fisting can also be called fist fucking, and the idea once you understand that is pretty straightforward. In general, the pleasure here is derived from the stretching rather than the thrusting of the fist, although some people may enjoy both aspects. With the vagina specifically, more sensation is derived from stretching rather than penetration, so fisting can be quite pleasurable in that aspect. Of course, it takes a lot of effort and training in order to be ready to get fisted or to fist someone, so it is not something that can be done willy-nilly.

Wait, What?! People Actually Do That?

If you’ve never heard of fisting, the idea can seem somewhat alarming. The idea of having someone’s entire fist up whatever orifice you choose can seem a little wild. This is definitely not something that people tend to do on a whim, but something that takes quite a while of preparation and training. The reason why fisting is becoming popular is because not only is it an extremely intimate act, but it can be extremely pleasurable if done right. The stretching aspect can be quite pleasurable, and the intimacy makes it all the more interesting to perform.

How to Actually Do It Properly

It Can Be Extremely Pleasurable
It Can Be Extremely Pleasurable
If you are interested in the idea of fisting, you obviously want to know how to do it properly. There’s a lot that goes into being able to fist someone or being able to get fisted. Don’t expect to do it the first night that you want to try. You are going to need to spend quite a while stretching your partner or being stretched. You have to work your way up to being fisted, so understand that before you get started. Your partner should be sure to wear a glove for sanitation, as well as safety on both of your parts. A lot of lubrication is going to be required, so make sure to stock up beforehand. Video – How To Fist A woman

Other Things You Need to Be Considering

There are other things you need to keep in mind when it comes to fisting or getting fisted. First of all, you need to make sure that you trust your partner and that your partner trusts you. It is a very intimate and vulnerable act, and it is not something to be done lightly. With that in mind, as long as you follow proper safety precautions, fisting can be an extremely pleasurable act to share with your partner and it is something you may want to try out. Just be sure to be very careful when you get started so that you don’t wind up hurting your partner or being hurt in the process. If you go slowly, you should be just fine – just remember to stock up on a whole lot of lube before things get going.

Preparing for the “You’re Fired” Speech

Preparing yourself to fire someone can often be both overwhelming and stressful. Sometimes, depending on how terrible an employee the person is, you may even enjoy firing them. Even if you are relieved to be firing an employee, it is still important to take certain steps to make sure what you say, and how you say it is both proper and respectable. Even if he or she are the worst employee you have ever had, you don’t want to lose your professionalism when you are firing them. Making sure to stay professional shows great character, and it can often help to keep riled emotions from escalating.

Write a Draft of Your Speech and Read it Aloud

Think What You Are Going To Say When You Fire An Employee
Think What You Are Going To Say When You Fire An Employee
When you’re trying to prepare yourself for giving a speech in which you have to fire someone, one of the best things you can do is to actually write out the speech, and then read it out loud. You should try doing this in front of a mirror, so that you can watch yourself for facial clues and gestures that will show that you are sincere, yet firm. Make sure you listen carefully to what you’ve wrote, and remember to edit it line-by-line if need be. You want your speech to sound solid. You don’t want the person that you’re firing to think that you’re intimidated by the situation, or that you’re not firm in your decision.

Once you have finished your draft, continue to read and edit it up until you’re ready to call in your employee. Make sure you rehearse your speech as much as possible. You may not know all of it word for word, but you definitely do not want to be reading it from a piece of paper, or from the computer when you’re firing your employee. They will take extreme offense to it, and it would be rightly so. You shouldn’t have anything to help remind you why you’re firing this person. If you do, they could argue that you are simply picking on them due to your on bias. It could lead to various grievances, and possibly even a lawsuit.

Do not allow your employee to think that you don’t know what you’re doing or saying. Even if you aren’t sure about things, pretend that you are. When you are speaking to them, they should not doubt even for a second that what you’re saying goes. The moment that they see you falter, they will try to take advantage of the situation.

Make Sure You Know Who to Contact In Case Things Get Out of Hand

Fire That Employee The Right Way
Fire That Employee The Right Way
Although it is rare, you may end up having to call security, or even the police when a former employee doesn’t take the news of being fired very well. Some employees can overreact and cause a lot of chaos and drama for you and other people. Some former employees may even become dangerous to you as well as to themselves and others. Always keep a phone or some other form of contact communication between you and someone who is trained to control the situation. If your former employee has become angry, irate, and aggressive, do not try to control the situation on your own. You may end up putting yourself in danger. Instead, call the authorities and let them handle things. If you’re afraid for your life, try to put some distance between you and the former employee. Shout for help if you must, even if it’s just to make others aware of the situation.

Firing an employee is probably something that most people don’t enjoy. Unfortunately, many times it simply has to be done. When you prepare yourself (and your speech) for firing an employee, it will make things easier on you by helping to keep you calm and collected. You may not enjoy firing your employees, but an important part of having your own business is being able to take the good things along with the bad.

Skip the Gym: Fitness on a Budget

Gym memberships are expensive and often go unused. Treadmills and weight sets are cumbersome cost a lot to get. Purchasing fitness classes is also very strenuous for your wallet. But the price of going to the gym should not stop you from getting fit. There are some great ways that you can get your daily exercise without paying a huge fee to some big gym. In fact, you can even work out daily in the comfort of your own home for free. Just remember to stretch before you work out, and find the routine that best suits you.

Hiking

Go Outdoor... Go Hiking And Enjoy The Fresh Air
Go Outdoor… Go Hiking And Enjoy The Fresh Air
Getting out into nature is a great way to get fit without paying any money. Even if you live in a flat area, going for a walk on a trail on the open land is a great way to start the day and start getting fit. You might be surprised how many options there are around you for walking in the outdoors. Even city folks will likely have a park by their house, and just going for a quick stroll costs nothing and will at least get you on to your feet. Once it becomes art of your routine, you might find that you quite enjoy walking outside, especially in the warmer summer months.

Biking

Getting on a bicycle is an awesome alternative to running for those who have weak knees and can’t run due to their joints. Biking works the legs and the core, and different terrain will tone different parts of the body. Biking is also a good way to get from place to place, and is good alternative to driving. This way you can save money on gas and car repairs while also getting fit without spending tons of money on the gym.

Bodyweight Fitness

Working Out At Home
Working Out At Home
As for working out at home, you don’t need a weight set to get a sweat going. There are hundreds of different exercises that you can do that only use your own body, and you can combine them in ways that will really make you feel the burn. There are a bunch of workouts that you can look up online, some of them are only about ten minutes long, and can be modified for how difficult they need to be.

Internet Pilates

The internet is also a great place to find workout tutorials, especially for stretching workouts like Pilates and yoga. These workouts are also pretty short, and are an awesome way to limber up in the mornings before work. You can stay indoors and follow an instructor, just as if you had paid for classes at a gym. Most of them don’t even require anything but what you’ve got laying around the house, and are easily modified. Luckily all you need for these online classes is determination, a few minutes, and an internet connection.

Video Workout

For a nostalgic feel, you can break out of the old aerobics classes that aired on television. They can be a fun, vintage way to work out, and might be a great way to get friends to work out together and have a really fun time. You can dress up and play around while simultaneously getting your heartrate up to fat burning levels. Another way you can use TV to work out is to take a look at a series you really like, pick some common events, and instead of taking a shot every time the event happens, you can assign a workout to it. There are plenty of these online for all kinds of show and movies, and they are very easy to have fun with.

Sex

Yes, sex is an awesome way to burn calories and have a ton of fun, right in the comfort of your own home. The horizontal boogie will burn as many calories as a nice long jog, and is significantly less of a chore. You can even be creative in bed, and improve your stamina and flexibility. The harder you work out outside of sex, the better sex you can have. Good and interesting sex is free and will both improve your physique and your relationship with any of your significant others. So go out there and start working out!

Fanfiction and You: Comprehending Your Girlfriend’s Weird Obsession

Having a girlfriend with nerdy or geeky hobbies is a great and beautiful thing. It’s ridiculously fun to be able to share your more unique hobbies with someone you have a great relationship with, so of course it’s amazing to have a girlfriend who is also immersed in geek culture. But sometimes, your girlfriend winds up knowing a bit more than you do when it comes to geek subculture! She’s in fandoms, she knows all of the latest lingo, and she’s very much into reading fanfiction. Chances are that, as a geek or nerd, you already know what fanfiction is – no matter if you do or don’t, it can be a little strange to grasp what the obsession is all about. Your girlfriend loves reading fanfiction at all hours of the day and even has email alerts set up to let her know when her favorite story gets updated. You want to understand and possibly share in this hobby of hers, but what’s a guy to do? You need to know what it’s all about! That doesn’t need to be a struggle anymore – you can figure out everything you need to know about fanfiction and your girlfriend’s obsession with it right here. Here’s what you need to know:

What Is Fanfiction?

Your Girlfriend's Weird Obsession With Fanfiction
Your Girlfriend’s Weird Obsession With Fanfiction
If you’ve never heard of fanfiction to begin with, then the whole idea can be a little baffling to you. The name speaks for itself – it’s fiction written by fans of a certain type of media. People write fanfiction about pretty much everything nowadays. It really got its start with the Star Trek fandom, but now devoted fans will write their own stories about video games, bands, movies, real people – you name it. It’s a huge part of the Internet nowadays. If your girlfriend has a book, comic, movie, or game that she really enjoys, chances are that she has partaken in fanfiction. Maybe you even wrote a little fanfiction in your younger days, though you may not have realized it! People write short stories and even fanfiction that turns out to be longer and more involved than the original media.

What’s the Deal with All the Gay Porn?

Now that you know what fanfiction is, you may realize your girlfriend has been partaking in quite a bit of interesting fanfiction. You realize that she’s been reading fanfiction written about two of the very much male characters from her favorite show or game. Having sex. A lot. What’s the deal with all the gay porn in fanfiction and what does it mean that your girlfriend has been reading so much of it? Generally, it’s just an escape for women to appreciate some well written porn without having to worry about writers who have no idea how the female body works. It probably doesn’t indicate any worrisome plans she might have for a male on male on female threesome, so you’re probably safe.

Other Weird Subsections of Fanfiction She Might Be Getting Into

There are tons of other weird things in fanfiction that you might want to know about. If your girlfriend is getting into some of these things, it could be a little more worrisome. For example, there is a huge subsection of fanfiction dedicated to mpreg – that’s right, male pregnancy. If your girlfriend is a mpreg hound, it might be time to take a closer look at what that might mean for your relationship. Another huge kink to hit the scene is ABO, or alpha/beta/omega dynamics. This has a lot of weird stuff in it, so you might want to avoid looking into it while you try to figure out what that means for your relationship with your girlfriend.

What It Means for Your Relationship

Fanfiction Does Not Have to Hurt Your Relationship
Fanfiction Does Not Have to Hurt Your Relationship
Generally, you shouldn’t have to worry too much if your girlfriend has really been getting into the fanfiction scene. She likely just reads it as an escape and a way to fantasize, and it probably doesn’t mean she wants to actually roleplay that you’re a pregnant guy. You can always try to get into the fanfiction scene yourself and see if the two of you can come up with a common ground and favorite new story, though. It could be fun!

4 Ways to Shop for Clothes That Will save You Money

When you’re ready to buy new clothes, you shouldn’t think for a second that you need to pay full price for them. On top of that, there are lots of deals that you can take advantage of if you shop at the right time. Clothing retailers often offer different sales based on buying in combination or during different sales events. For example, many department stores have holiday weekend sales where they’ll have an entire department half off. Depending on the time of year you’re looking for clothing, the amount of money you can save will vary. You can also forego the store altogether with a little creative thinking. Here are four tips about how you can be a savvy clothing shopper and save money.

Shopping Online with Promo Codes

Shop Online And Save
Shop Online And Save
Shopping online will save you more money the vast majority of the time. You can comparison shop using search engines like Google, and look around different websites. Usually, there’s also a promo code available on bigger online retailers. This is especially true if you’re shopping at a site that has a brick and mortar business as its base, but sells clothing online, too. It’s also possible to try items on in the store, and then find them online. This eliminates the hassle of returning things that don’t fit. Make sure to always pay attention to the size charts provided by the store.

Off-Season Sales

If you’re not someone who needs to be up on fashion trends, you can easily find some nice garments on the standard sales racks that you find at most stores. These are clothes that were stocked for a particular season. You can find some great deals if you don’t mind shopping off-season. For example, there might be items that were designed for the summer, but that can also be worn in fall. This is where you can save a lot of money by buying basics that are on sale. It just takes a little browsing. However, this tactic is only usable in-store, rather than online since it requires you to dig through sales racks.

Thrift Stores

Thrift Stores Are A Great Option To Buy On A Butget
Thrift Stores Are A Great Option To Buy On A Butget
Thrift stores are the tried and true destinations of both deal seekers as well as those interested in fashion. You can find both unique, vintage items right alongside basic staples that would be three times the price in a regular store. Thrift stores are also fun to frequent because any item you find will be one-of-a-kind. Even thrift stores have sales, too, on certain occasions. Most secondhand stores also have particular customer appreciation days where all items that have a certain color tag are a particular percentage off. This is a deep discount you can’t afford to miss, because you can stock up on everything you find. Thrift stores aren’t just good for clothes, but also shoes and accessories. You’ll be surprised at some of the designer labels you can find when you look hard enough.

Clothing Swap Parties

This is one of the most fun tactics for saving money on clothes. Everyone has clothes they don’t wear anymore, whether because something just doesn’t fit right or the owner is tired of it. When you host a clothing swap party, you can invite your friends to bring five pieces of gently used clothing to put into a pile, and then host a free-for-all swap. This way, what’s old becomes new for everyone there, and it’s all free. You can liven it up by asking guests to bring refreshments and making it a real party. The best part of an event like this is that everything is free, and you’ll probably get some very nice items if your friends have good taste.

What to Do When Your eBay Feedback Score is Bad

Selling on eBay is one of the best ways to make money on the web, whether you’re a power seller chugging through hundreds of products a month or a hobbyist who’s just busy cleaning out his attic. However, one thing that you need to remember at all times when working on eBay is the fact that it is a business primarily run on reputation. Your feedback score is no joke. It’s actually very important! People do look at them, and just because you usually see people with excellent feedback doesn’t mean that people with bad feedback don’t exist.

What if you’re one of those people? What if, through some set of circumstances, your feedback score has ended up in the garbage? If that’s the case, you’re going to need to do something about it. You’re going to have a tough time getting people to want to buy your items when they can’t even trust that you’ll ship them out! In this article, we’re going to take a look at the steps you need to take when your feedback score on eBay is no good. That way, you can get back on track to being profitable again!

Figure Out Why It’s Bad First

Improving Your eBay Feedback Score
Improving Your eBay Feedback Score
You can’t fix anything if you don’t know why it’s broken in the first place. Your best bet is going to be to take some time to actually read through your feedback to understand what’s wrong. Yes, that can be difficult. No one likes to hear bad things about themselves. However, you have to do it. Otherwise you’re just going to be struggling to understand what’s wrong.

Reach Out to Unhappy Buyers for Amends

Offer Unhappy Buyers Some Sort Of Compensation
Offer Unhappy Buyers Some Sort Of Compensation
Now that you have a better sense of what the problem is with your operating practices, you should try to apologize to people who had a bad experience with you. The best way to do this is through eBay’s own system. Offer unhappy buyers a partial refund or some other way to say “sorry” to them. Try to get them to change their scores to something more positive. This won’t always work, but most of the time, it will. You should see a dramatic turnaround in your feedback scores in just a little while when you’re using this method!

Make an Effort at Fixing the Problem

If there are other issues at play with your feedback score, such as problems with your shipping times or even the quality of your items, then you need to make an effort to fix those things. You shouldn’t continue to do the same things you were before. That obviously was not working for you. The only way to get a better feedback score is to get more people to give you that good feedback. Work harder to sell more things through the site, and then come back with a better feedback score. You’ll be happy you made the effort to change.

Take a Break and Refocus Your Efforts

Maybe you just aren’t ready for that kind of change, though. If you are just feeling sad and discouraged about the progress of your eBay sales, then you should step back for a little while. There’s nothing wrong with taking a break to clear your head. In fact, that could be just what you need. Once you’ve had some time to think about what you’ve been doing wrong, you can come back and get a fresh start. With your new perspective and energy, it shouldn’t be all that difficult to take care of business and get your feedback back to where you need it to be.

Ditch Your Old Account and Make a New One

Of course, sometimes, no matter what you do, you’re just not going to be able to make things work out. When you’re struggling to get your feedback score up and nothing is getting it done, you might just want to abandon your account. Lay low for a little while, and then go back in with a brand new account. Start over and try to get things right as a seller this time. You don’t want to have to keep ditching the site and reinventing yourself. That wouldn’t be profitable at all!

Dating a Woman Who Has Lots of Male Friends

Dating a woman who has her own friends is great. To make a relationship work, it requires that the two of you have your own time that you spend either alone, or with other people. When your woman has friends, you don’t have to worry about her constantly wanting to cling to you. Most of the time, her friends will provide her with enough of a distraction to let the two of you enjoy your time away from each other. Most men are fine with their ladies having a girls’ night out. But many of us are less than thrilled when we discover that our lady is spending her “me time” with a bunch of guys.

Meet Her Buddies (And See If They’re Up to Something)

Meeting Her Friends Is The First Step
Meeting Her Friends Is The First Step
Believe it or not, some men can be just friends with women, and have no desire to date or have sex with them. Of course, most of the time this is pretty rare, so deciding to meet your lady’s male friends is always a good idea. Don’t make it seem like you want to meet them because you don’t trust them. If you do this, she will turn things around to make it seem like you don’t trust her. Even if you don’t trust her, it’s probably best if you don’t make her aware of it.

Find out what her pals are into, and host something at your place that you can invite them to. Meeting all of her male in a group setting makes it feel less like an interrogation, and more like hangout. Make sure to actually talk to her guy friends and try to gauge whether or not some (or all) of them will be a problem. Be on the lookout for alpha males. They’re almost always waiting for the perfect opportunity to try to hook up with someone else’s woman. Don’t forget to check for wandering eyes. Most of us aren’t as discreet as we think we are when it comes to checking women out. If you see someone’s eyes lingering on your lady for too long, it could be a sign that he wants to be more than just friends with her.

Admit When You Are Uncomfortable

Tell Her You Have A Problem With Her Male Friends
Tell Her You Have A Problem With Her Male Friends
Explain to her how you are feeling, you feel concerned about their intentions, it’s best to speak up about it. Try to avoid telling her that you don’t want her hanging out with them. It will only cause arguments and conflict in the relationship. Instead, take her out on a date, and tell her why you feel uncomfortable with her having certain male friends. Be willing to compromise. Tell her that some of her male friends make you uncomfortable, and then explain why. Always start by telling her that you trust her. As hard as it may be, acknowledge that you are insecure (or pretend to be).  In other words, make her feel guilty for making you uncomfortable.

When a woman feels like you are being sincere, and that you trust her by sharing your feelings with her, she will be much more willing to compromise with you. She will also be more willing to take your feelings into consideration. If you’ve done a good job of stating why you’re uncomfortable with some of her guy friends, she will eventually start to feel the same way about them.

Accepting the fact that your lady has male friends can be difficult, but if you take the time to meet them, you can get rid of most of the apprehension you have about them. If she refuses to let you meet her male friends, she might be hiding something.   

Reorganizing Your Computer Desk Made Easy

Everybody loves coming home from work and sitting down in front of their own awesome computer so that they can waste time on the Internet for a while. After all, it’s a great way to unwind! However, it might not be your favorite thing to do if every day you come home to sit down at a really dirty and disorganized desk. A messy space will leave you feeling like you’re a mess yourself. That’s not the kind of atmosphere that you want to create for yourself in your home office. It’s quite the opposite, as a matter of fact! That’s why you should take an afternoon to fix things up.

Reorganizing your space will give your desk a new lease on life. In fact, you may even begin to want to spend more time than ever before on your computer. There’s nothing wrong with that! However, you’re not going to be able to achieve that if you don’t first make things nice and tidy. This guide is here to help walk you through the steps that you’ll need to take in order to get your desk in good working order once again. Let’s get started!

Start By Clearing Everything Off

Clear Everything Off Your Desk
Clear Everything Off Your Desk
You aren’t going to have any sort of luck trying to clean and reorganize a desk that’s still covered in a bunch of junk. Step one is going to making sure that you’ve taken everything off of your desk. That means everything! Don’t just throw it around all over the place, either. That’s not going to help you clean up. Instead, as you take things off your desk, try to sort and organize them. You’re going to want to put things in an order that you can transfer back onto your desk later. By keeping everything nice and tidy now, you can keep yourself from having issues later on where you have to delay putting your desk back together while you find items you misplaced.

Reorganize Your Cables and Zip Tie Them Up

One of the biggest sources for clutter and mess on anyone’s desk is going to be their computer cables. It doesn’t matter how nicely you set them up the first time you sat down at your desk, those cables always seem to end up tangled together after a little while. How does it happen? No one knows! Now that you have everything out of the way, though, you should use zip ties to cinch up your cables and keep them all in one easy to find place. That way, you won’t have to ever go through the hassle of detangling them ever again.

Clean Your Monitor and Your Keyboard

Don’t forget that you should get some actual cleaning done while you’re doing all of this. The two things that are going to need the most attention will be your monitor and your keyboard. With a lint free cloth and some screen cleaner, get all of the grime off of your monitor. That will allow you to see things much more clearly once again. Then pop the keys off your keyboard and clean out all the crumbs and dust that get trapped inside of there. Once you’ve got them spic and span, you can replace them on your desktop.

Designate Areas For All Your Things

Designate Areas For Everything
Designate Areas For Everything
Now is the time to start moving everything back onto your desk. However, as we said before, don’t just toss everything back onto your desk in a jumble. You won’t have accomplished anything at that point. You’ll just have made another mess. Instead, designate spots on your desk for things like papers, as well as areas for pens and pencils. Once you’ve gotten that taken care of, you’re almost through. Make a survey of your entire workspace. Does it feel like you will be able to get things done more quickly now? If so, you can sit back down and get to work!